Yakety Yak, Don't Talk Back

"Like a dull knife that just can't cut
Just talking a lot and saying nothing
And sayin' nothing, and sayin' nothing."

- James Brown



Last week's inauguration of Donald Trump as America's 45th President brought out the frustrations of the left who continue to struggle with a failed election.  You could see it in the faces of Michelle Obama and Hillary Clinton who just wanted to be anywhere but the inauguration.  Or the face of Cathy Mc Morris Rogers, who shrouded in a black cowl, looked like the re-incarnation of a Sith Lord.

How was it possible for the greatest woman of our time to lose to Donald Trump, a loud-mouthed New York businessman with no political experience?

Since that eventful night, the left has tried to answer that question by calling for recounts in Wisconsin, Michigan and Pennsylvania.  When that failed, they challenged the legitimacy of Trump's victory, saying the Russians hacked into our election process.  When that failed they took to the streets to vent their frustrations and in some cases damage property and physically attack Trump supporters.  They are already delaying confirmation of Trump's cabinet -- a dangerous proposition given the state of world affairs.  Their ultimate nuclear option will be Trump's impeachment.

It's clear to me that those who lost last November's election are incapable of accepting Trump as their president.

I know, like -- you think?

Last year's election was supposed to be Act II of the left's Master Plan to fundamentally change America.  For the past sixty plus years, the left has been patiently changing our education system, our courts, our churches, the media and finally our political system.  Having successfully installed the nation's first socialist President (carefully chosen for the color of his skin), the left was celebrating over the possibility of tearing down the rest of America's foundation with the election of Hillary Clinton (chosen for her anatomy).  Just the prospect of Hillary picking Supreme Court justices for the next generation was giving many of them spontaneous orgasms.

Despite an unusual preference for pantsuits, Hillary was still expected to win the presidency in a landslide.  So confident was the left of their success in November that they failed to hide their true ambitions, leading to a campaign that favored opinions on both coasts, but not the heartland of America.

Miraculously, Donald Trump survived the primaries where he dispatched the RINOs and Republican establishment.  None gave him much of a chance against the HildaBeast, including me, who was so convinced of his failure that I didn't even watch the election results.

On the same day that I watched -- in stunned exuberance -- his acceptance speech from Trump Towers, supporters of Hillary rubbed their eyes in disbelief and decided they were having a very bad dream.  To this day, I'm sure many are still convinced last November's election never happened.

As reality sinks in, they cannot change course.  Parades, organized to celebrate Hillary's ascendancy, quickly became marches celebrating the liberation of nasty women.   Hollywood scripts that were green lighted six months ago are currently collecting dust on  producers' desks.  And the Washington establishment -- both Democrat and Republican -- is meeting in dark closets and dusky bars trying to re-allocate their political capital in the new Age of Trump.


-- SF --


I experienced this denial first hand when a friend tried to get people on Facebook to "talk" about the election and discuss the inauguration of Trump."  God bless her big liberal heart, but nothing I say or anyone else says will change the outcome of the election.  People are not going to re-think their vote based on a post from BBC News, POLITICO or The Truth Examiner.  I'm certainly not going to rethink my position on illegal immigration after being told I'm a white supremacist by some guilt-ridden professor at UW-L.

Talking isn't going to change the new direction in which this country is headed either.   No more BS on global warming,  white privilege, illegal immigration or abortion (I think I just heard someone's uterus explode).

People on the left desperately want President Trump to be the president for all of America and not just a select group.  They also want Congress to not be smug and ignore the opposition.  Citing the last eight years of Republican obstructionism, the left says, "Work for the common good of this country and not special interest groups."

They continue, "Open up the lines of communication and listen..."  Is that why they march to Washington demanding that President Trump be impeached?  Or that he is not their president?  When you ask them to condemn the vulgar language or hateful messages the left is quiet.  Crickets can be heard. 

Respectfully, I can only contain my laughter so long.  Not once did I hear someone from the left admonish President Obama for saying we won.  Get used to it.

For years, I've been hearing them say if only we could sit down and talk to the terrorists, they would understand we aren't bad people.  I'm not sure if it's the psychedelic drugs they took in the 60's or the anti-depressant drugs they take now, but the left is delusional if they think ISIS has any interest in understanding American culture.  The only reason they would agree to meet with you is to add ten more heads to telephone poles on their way to Mosul.  I must admit I would pay a lot of money to see Madonna, Ashley Judd, Barbara Streisand, Scarlett Johansson, America Ferrera and Miley Cyrus sit down with someone like Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi to discuss the cultural benefits of American music and film. 

I suspect the tragic result would give new meaning to Alicia Keys' song, "Girls on Fire."

I don't want to give anyone the idea that I don't like to discuss the issues.  My journalistic tendencies still have me researching topics as best as I can.  My sons will attest to the fact that I can talk about something for hours.  My wife can attest to the fact that it drives her crazy.  If there is value in talking, it's this -- you finally hear your kids say something besides "fine," "ok," and "good."  And it does help to understand where the other person is coming from.  But it still doesn't change my opinion that the Bears still suck and Hillary should never pose for Playboy.

I'm a big believer in action.  Actions speak louder than words.  In my business, if I say I'm going to do something I better damn well do it, or the next time I see my customer, I've lost my creditability and maybe their business.  Trust is the result of following through on a promise, and I need my customers to trust me when I say they need additional protection or try to persuade them to move their business.

I know trust and politics don't go hand in hand, but those of us not in the political arena -- we must be honest.  I'm not changing my position on an issue just because someone says, "but the scientific consensus is man is responsible for global warming."  I don't trust scientists, journalists or doctors who have skin in the game.

Fake news has led to the breakdown of trust-worthy information on-line.  It's led to the reporting of facts that suit a certain point of view.  The stories either edit out important information or are deliberately misleading.  It's become too easy for someone to report one thing, knowing it's false and then submit a retraction hours later.  The original story is what people remember, not the retraction. The mysterious MLK bust that went missing from the Oval Office is a prime example.  If this is what's happening over something so simple to verify, imagine what's going on elsewhere.

So talking about issues -- armed with facts that may or may not be true -- gets us nowhere.



-- SF --

My final point concerns the Women's March on Washington this past weekend.  As advertisers have known for many years,  a picture is worth a thousand words.  And the organizers of the march knew this, which is why so many protesters were holding signs and wearing vaginas on their head (I still can't believe I just wrote that).

By now, we've all seen the horrible display of vulgarity and filth scattered throughout marches in Washington and other parts of the country.   Women parading around topless and talking about their monthly periods.  From speeches filled with profanity and vomit-inducing poetry, displays of the march in Washington left most men -- and quite a few women -- wanting NOTHING to do with these protesters. These women disgraced themselves much more than President Trump ever could.

Is this the image women want people to see?

Does showing me your private parts show strength?  Does building a wall around your sex make you more attractive?   Does hatred for all things male really provide empowerment?  Is that what it means to be a woman, hear me roar?

If you really want to roar, how about holding the next march in the Middle East?

I've never been to a protest, but I would think you'd be interested in persuading other people to your point of view.  Which begs the question -- what are they protesting?  Trump?  He just became president, so if they're protesting his policies, he has none.  So they must have been basing their protest on his presidential campaign which didn't involve attacks on women. Unless you're calling Hillary a woman -- I know there's a joke here --  but I still think it would be better to call her his opponent.  So that means they were protesting his locker room talk caught on tape -- but that was over 20 years ago.

So that only leaves his position on abortion.  But was that even a factor in the election at all?  Did he state a position on abortion?

There's no doubt his potential nominees for the Supreme Court have women fearful of losing their reproductive rights.  Which I don't understand because we're talking about aborting life, not reproducing it.   But honestly, we see this reaction every time a Republican president names someone for the Supreme Court  The left is always concerned that the court is going to slant conservative, which means overturning Roe vs. Wade.

So that means this Women's March was mostly about abortion.

I'm sure there were positive messages to be made, and honest displays involving fully-clothed bodies, but I doubt they had any chance of being heard above the loud, nasty feminists featured on ABC, CNN and CBS.  A purple haired lesbian was interviewed on Waters World and said she was there looking for a soul mate (I doubt she found one).  Others stated they were there to push for equal pay and affordable health care.  Nothing wrong with that, but I don't see how that's exclusive to being a woman.  

I'm all for holding President Trump accountable for what he says and does.  I'm also all in on treating women with respect and love -- my best friend and mother of our two sons is a woman.  So the better she is, the better I am.

As for the women at the march on Washington, if you want to have a conversation about this election, you need to show some class, not your vaginas. 

That's a message that speaks volumes and something I can listen to. 

Miracle Man

Before Aaron Rogers and Brett Favre, the Packers had a quarterback by the name of Don Majkowski, who was with the Packers from 1987 to 1992.  For a short time, he was viewed as a miracle worker for the Green and Gold.

Nicknamed the "Majik Man," Majkowski broke out during the 1989 season and had one of the best seasons in Packer's history with 27 touchdowns and over 4,300 passing yards.  He is probably best known for a game against the hated Chicago Bears, when he beat the Bears with a touchdown pass that was initially nullified by an illegal forward pass (Chicago Bear coach  Mike Ditka thought he had crossed the line of scrimmage).  The play was later overturned, allowing the Packers to beat the Bears for the first time since 1984.  Majkowski capped the season with a visit to the Pro Bowl.

But the Majik Man's fourth quarter heroics had nothing on Aaron Rogers who orchestrated a stunning 11th hour victory in Dallas this past weekend.

Consider this:

The Packers were without their two best running backs,  Eddie Lacey and James Starks.

They had a converted wide receiver, Ty Montgomery, as their running back.

They were without their starting two cornerbacks, Sam Shields and Quentin Rollins.

They were without their best wide receiver, Jordy Nelson.

During the first quarter, they lost their starting strong safety, Morgan Burnett.

And they were playing in Dallas against the conference's number one seed, confident and rested after a first round bye.

And yet, this patch work team of third stringers and undrafted free agents were tied 31 to 31 with 34 seconds remaining in the fourth quarter.  The team's feel-good mojo had taken a hit from being ahead 21 - 3 to being even at 31 - 31, but the Packers were still in a good position to win.  Why?  Aaron Rogers and the red-hot offense were waiting to take the field with less than a minute remaining ...


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It was October 17th, and the crowd sitting in Lambeau Field was booing the Packers without prejudice -- both offense and defense.  They had lost to the Cowboys 30-16, with 4 turnovers and sloppy play, including poor play by Aaron Rogers. 

The Cowboy's game extended his career-worse slump.  He missed a touchdown when his throw sailed over a wide-open Randall Cobb in the end zone.  He fumbled with the Packers poised to score inside the Cowboy's 5-yard line.

Worse, the eventual loss to the Cowboys wasn't a one-game blip.  If you took away the Packer's romp over the Detroit Lions earlier in the year, an ugly pattern had emerged.  Rogers, known for taking care of the football, had eight touchdowns and six turnovers in four other games.  

For nearly a year and a half, the two-time MVP had struggled to be the quarterback that had led the NFL in touchdowns and quarterback ratings. 

People were wondering what had happened to Rogers.

The Green Bay Press wrote, "Dallas led by 14 at the time of Roger's second give away, and Dallas won by 14.  These are the kinds of games Green Bay has won for years during the Roger's era, the slugfests with NFC peers."

Neil Greenberg of the Washington Post wrote, "Rogers can't hit the broad side of a barn with some of his passes."  He also highlighted Rogers had only completed 60.2 percent of his passes this season, placing him 25th among 31 qualifying quarterbacks.  Last season, his completion percentage dipped below 61 percent for the first time since he became a starter in 2008.

Bob McGinn of the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel wrote, "Rogers should be categorized as a good veteran quarterback scuffling to regain his elite form."  The story's ugly headline read:  "Rogers Falls From Ranks of Greats."

It appeared the Cowboys, led by Dak Precott and Ezekiel Elliot, were the NFC's new football darlings.  Green Bay, led by Aaron Rogers, looked out-of-sorts and tired.  A changing of the NFC guard was firmly underway.


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It was a schoolyard play.

That's what Rogers called it -- buying time to keep a play alive before delivering a strike.  Coach McCarthy called it "Dash Pass Left."

After two plays -- including one that saw Cowboy's safety Jeff Heath drill Rogers from behind for a 10 yard sack -- the Packers faced a third and 20 from their own 32 with 12 seconds left in the fourth quarter.  According to Randall Cobb, Rogers designed the third down play in the huddle, telling the Packers' receivers what routes to run.  He also set offensive line protections and crossing routes for the receivers.   Surprisingly, Jared Cook and Rogers had practiced the play with Cook catching the pass just inches out-of-bounds.  So they practiced it again until they got it right.

But that was during warm ups, not with 12 seconds left in the game.

Rogers took the shotgun snap and started rolling out to his left.  He planted his feet with guard Lane Taylor in front of him, then moved to the left again.  As he's closing on the sideline, he rifled a throw across his body to his tight end, who got behind Byron Jones and was running toward the sideline.

As the clock ticked down and the ball headed his way, Cook's eyes grew wide with a mix of disbelief, anticipation and focus.

It's been said that the NFL is very complex, with a lot of people working to find the best and most successful way to pick apart a defense.  Defenses are equally complex, with disguises and blitzes coming from all sides.  It's amazing -- despite the efforts of all those people -- Rogers was able to draw up the play in the huddle, scramble to let his receivers get open and then make the throw on a rope and on target.

I don't know if another quarterback could have done it.



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After week 11, the Packers were in 14th place for making the playoffs, just ahead of the Chicago Bears.  Losses to the Falcons, Colts, Titans and Redskins had put the Packers at 4-6 and in serious danger of not making the playoffs for the first time in years.  

And yet, there stood Rogers at his Lambeau Field locker, talking to an ESPN reporter, telling him that all the Packers needed was one win to turn things around.


"You just feel like it just takes one," Rogers said.  "We get one under our belts, things might start rolling for us and we can run the table."  The audaciousness of his comment made the headlines in most newspapers, and brought inevitable comparisons to the previous year when he told a radio show host to just R-E-L-A-X.

It sounds easy today, but at the time, the Packers were not a good team.  The defense had given up 33, 31, 47 and 42 points to average teams.  The offense was playing a little better, but they were still without a running back and Rogers looked like a quarterback for the Chicago Bears, not the MVP quarterback of years past.

The Packers were heading to Philadelphia that weekend for a tough game against the resurgent Eagles.  Following that game, the Packers would have to beat the NFC West leading Seahawks, the Vikings, the AFC South leading Texans and the NFC North leading Lions in Detroit.

What was Rogers thinking?

Clairvoyant or not, Rogers and the Packers did run the table and won the North Division by beating the Lions in the last game of the regular season 31-24.  It was the fifth time in the last six seasons the Packers were division champs, but this one was possibly one of the most rewarding for Rogers and the Packers whom many had given up on, myself included.

Heading into the Cowboys game, the Packers had won seven straight.



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The situation was first and ten at the Dallas 32 with three seconds remaining in a 31-31 tie.

As the Packers lined up and prepared for the kick, Jason Garrett tried to ice Mason Crosby, who had hit a 56-yarder a minute earlier, by calling a timeout.  Despite the timeout, Crosby continued with his kick and the ball sailed through the uprights.

By this time, I was lying on the floor in front of the television.  Behind and above me, everyone jumped for joy until they realize the kick didn't count.  The stress was so great that I did three push ups before falling to the ground.  I turned on my side to watch Paul since I could no longer watch the game.  Hit or miss, I would judge the outcome based on Paul's reaction to the kick.

The time had come for the reboot.  With ice in his veins, Crosby kicked the ball, which headed slightly left, before sliding right.  As time ran out, the ball sailed through the goal posts and the refs raised their arms to signal a good kick.   Paul leapt from his chair, arms raised to the ceiling, as if mimicking the refs.  He kept yelling "We won!  We won!"   I got off the floor and started slapping high fives.

The final score was 34-31, with Rogers throwing for 356 yards and two touchdowns.  Crosby --  with his winning kick -- became the first kicker to make a pair of 50 plus yards or longer in the final two minutes of a postseason game.

And the Packers, with Rogers and another miracle finish, continued to run the table with their eighth win in a row. 

Packers and Badgers and Football! Oh, my!

It's the first weekend in January.  So you know what that means.  Less than two weeks before Trump's inauguration!

No seriously -

It's the ultimate weekend in Wisconsin sports for two of my favorite teams -- the Green Bay Packers and the Wisconsin Badgers.  As always, they were both playing in games that would provide an answer to how their respective seasons would be viewed.

For the Packers, it would mean another opportunity to exorcise the NY Giants demon as a team that prevents them from moving on in the NFC playoffs.  For the Badgers it would provide a final statement in a bowl game against an undefeated team.

Since the early nineties, I have been lucky enough to watch the Packers win 254 regular season games including two Super Bowls(with Favre and Rogers as quarterbacks).  That's a lot of Sundays where I went to sleep feeling pretty good.  During that same span, they have only had two losing seasons -- in 2005 and 2008.

The Badgers , who were perennial doormats for most of their early days in the Big Ten, have risen from red ink to red roses since Barry Alvarez turned the program around in the early 1990's.  Since that time, they have won 6 conference titles and 227 wins -- many against teams with much higher rated players like Ohio State and Michigan.

So it's safe to say my life is good (for more reasons that just football, but that's for another post).  And yet, every year my friends and I go through enough anxiety and antacid to be majority owners in Procter and Gamble.  Despite the success my beloved Badgers and Packers enjoyed, every year brings new worries and new challenges:  will the Badgers EVER get a good quarterback?  And will the PACKERS ever have a good defense?

The Packers' win against the NY Giants, by a score of 38-13, continues a remarkable turn around for a team that was losing to the likes of the Titans and the Redskins.  For the first time in many years, I jumped out of my chair and did something else on a Sunday afternoon.  I'm as loyal a fan as there is, but I found it a waste of time watching the opposing team score against the Packers as though the Packers had decided to not only use the cheerleaders from the University of Wisconsin - Green Bay, but also their players (for the record, the Phoenix don't have a football team).

It's a credit to Coach McCarthy and the players that the Packers have put themselves into the Division playoffs.  I'd also credit Aaron Rogers who has been on a MVP tear lately by throwing 23 touchdown passes without an interception.  He lead the regular season with 40 touchdowns, threw for more than 4,400 yards and finished with a quarterback rating of 104.2.  Roger's sterling play negated a really bad defense that isn't getting any better under Dom Capers now in his eight year with the Packers.

My brother-in-law has been calling for Capers' head for years now and for the first time, I'm with him.  Watching the Packers play defense is a lot like watching Obama give a State of the Union speech -- who am I kidding, any speech he makes -- I'm pulling my hair out and praying time runs out before I lose my mind.

Here's what I think the Packers need to do this off-season to remain competitive in the North Division and NFC:

. Fire Dom Capers
. Model their defense to those found in Minnesota (gasp) and Seattle
. Spend the money on a free-agent corner to replace Sam Shields
. Find replacements NOW for Matthews and Peppers (they will be gone before you know it)
. Draft a solid running back to replace Eddie Lacy and James Starks who have had a horrible year

I would also replace Ted Thompson who seems content to win the North Division.  His model of consistency by drafting young players and developing them works at the divisional level, but I really think we need to add some free agents to get to the Super Bowl.  Rogers is arguably the best quarterback in the league (and has been for some time) and all we have to show for it is one Super Bowl.

I don't know what pieces are missing, but the new general manager needs to find the pieces that make us great.  Even if it means some bad years down the road.  I'm happy to win a Super Bowl ever 4 years instead of 1 every 10.

I know that sounds spoiled, but really -- 227 wins and only two Super Bowl wins?

Perhaps even better than the Packer's turn around, is the season the Wisconsin Badgers just completed. 

Despite losing senior leadership at the quarterback position, losing their defensive coordinator to LSU of the hated SEC, and losing much of our secondary to graduation, the Badgers finished the year ranked # 9.  Anytime you can finish with more wins than losses, it's a reason to do the "jump around."  This year, it's been more like "a run for the roses," until a disastrous second half in the BIG Ten championship game in Indianapolis.

But a lot happened along the way, including a win against LSU at Lambeau Field to start the season. Going up against Dave Aranda, our former defensive coordinator, made the challenge even more difficult, but the Badgers were up for it by flexing their own defensive muscle in the 16-14 win. 

With T.J. Watt and Vince Biegel leading the way on defense, Bucky started to find its identity on offense through senior contributions from Bart Simpson and Corey Clement.  While the offense wasn't up to our usual standards (they finished at 203 rushing yards and 179 passing yards per game), they were always in the game in the forth quarter.  The combination of tough defense and ball control led the way to an 11-3 record, including the Western Division champion. 

2016 saw the Badgers beat Iowa, Nebraska and Minnesota (bragging rights for another year Matt!) with tough loses to Ohio State and Michigan and Penn State in the championship game.  In each loss, the difference was a single touchdown, which means if they had a little more offense we'd have been undefeated in the Big Ten.  Ohio State and Michigan -- as always -- were loaded with stud football players and high profile coaches.  Their athletic programs probably spend more money in one year than Wisconsin does in three.  And Penn State came out of nowhere to win against Ohio State before losing to USC in the Rose Bowl.

The season ended on a high note when the Badgers took it to Central Michigan (undefeated and ranked 15th)  in the Cotton Bowl, where they won 24-16.  A trip to Howie's on New Year's Day was the perfect way to start post season football and see how many of my friends had new fitness watches  on their wrists.

All in all it, was a great season with more wins than anyone expected, a trip to the championship game and a bowl win -- and it sets them up for a much better year in 2017.  With a little help on offense, they could be one of the final four teams to play for the National Championship game next January.

Just think -- the Wisconsin Badgers could be going to the White House to meet President Trump.  I might just have to travel to Washington to see that!

Here's what I think the Badgers need to do to have another successful year in the Big Ten:

. Develop their offensive line. 

They must get stronger and better on the rushing side, and protect sophomore quarterback Alex Hornibrook.  And replace the defection of  offensive tackle Ryan Ramczch, who is going to the NFL.

. Give the ball to Bradrick Shaw.

Shaw, who at 6' 1" and 211 pounds has the potential to be another Melvin Gordon if he gets a little help from the offensive line.

. Develop the quarterback and wide receive positions.

Let's hope the experience quarterback Hornibrook and wide receivers Taylor, Pryor and Rushing got this year translates into more yardage through the air.  If it does, great things will happen next year for the Badgers.

. Replace T. J. Watt and Vince Biegel on the defensive side of the ball. 

As great as both players were, the Badgers are loaded at the linebacker position and should do just as well in 2017 when we get Dooley, Cichy and Orr back from injury. 



All in all, 2017 was a great year to be a football fan in Wisconsin fan.  GO PACKERS!  GO BUCKY!

The Unbearable Guilt of Being White

On the heels of my last post talking about some college-aged youth being unprepared for losing November's election, comes the realization that many are also unprepared for being white. 

Apparently when Lady Gaga sings "I Was Born This Way," it only applies to the broke, evergreen, black, beige, chola or orient-made, gay, straight or bisexual.  How do I know this?  Because MTV and other "entertainers" want people like me -- a white male -- to feel guilty about my skin color and improve myself by ignoring what I see in the mirror.

 

Case in point -- a video of millenials pushing "New Year's Resolutions for White Guys" posted to their news Twitter account. 

Can I hear an "Amen!" brothers?

While normally, I appreciate people looking out for my well-being, I think this is one time that I will ignore their leftist musings and follow the advice of another MTV star -- Taylor Swift -- and just "Shake It Off."  I have enough things to worry about during the Christmas season -- like does this star on the top of my holiday tree upset my neighbor, or does wishing a client  "Merry Christmas" send him into a seasonal depression.  I don't need to complicate things any more than they are.

In many ways, I wish these social warriors were still fighting the war over gay marriage.  Since that fight went down with a knockout in the first round, they've been looking for new battles to fight.  It's just one white male's point of view, but I think their attack on white privilege is just another example of how much they hate this country's founding.  To these young minds of mush, America's problem with race has deep roots.  So deep that they go back to our country's beginning when the evil white man from Europe tried to exterminate one race (native Americans) and enslave another (blacks).

I realize MTV has been missing from my viewing sphere for some time (that would be over 30 years -- since the days they actually showed videos) -- but based on this video, I have to say that this channel serves no good purpose other than to keep some of these dimwits off welfare.  It scares the hell out of me to think these are the same people who will graduate from the lollipop shrine of college and someday leave mom and dad's basement.

There are so many things about this video that remind me of the stupidity exhibited during an episode of Beavis and Butthead that I don't know where to begin,  But in the interest of spending as little time thinking about it as I can -- here I go.

MTV's suggested resolutions:

Realize that America never was "great" for minorities.

Can we all just agree that Black Lives Matter isn't the opposite of All Lives Matter?  Black lives just matter.  There's no need to over complicate it."  Another adds, "Cops weren't born with blue skin.  Right?  I mean, yeah.  They weren't born blue.

White people need to learn what "mansplaining" is, and then stop doing it.

Nobody who has black friends say they have black friends.

Oh, and if you are a judge, stop prioritizing the well-being of an Ivy League athlete over the life of the woman he assaulted.

We all love Beyonce, and yes, she's black, so of course she cares about black issues.  I'm talking to you FOX News.

I'm still not convinced these "youts" aren't just saying stupid stuff to gain recognition.  Could they really be this ignorant?  But, like I told the tatted high school senior with a pink mohawk -- if you really want attention, you should forget looking like something out of a Mad Max movie, and instead graduate at the top of your class.  THAT will get you noticed.

Why is it that so many of these kids think the only way to achieve success is to look the part of a loser?

Another case in point are the guilt-ridden routines coming from late-night comedians struggling with the new normal.   The Colberts, Stewards, Fallons, Kimmels, Olivers and not-funny-in-prime-time Saturday Night Live have been left in the dark over why the vast wasteland located between California and New York rejected Hillary Clinton's presidential bid to be cast as the main character in Woody Allen's movie "Take the Money and Run."

I was feeling so good about Trump's presidential victory that I thought it would be fun to watch an episode of Samantha Bee's Full Frontal.  I was wrong.  It didn't help that I was in a great mood.

Little did I know what I have been missing by not watching this show.  Now I know:  America's Canadian sweetheart wasted no time blaming white America for electing Donald Trump.  (Apparently these days, to have a career in mainstream comedy you must mock the left's chief bogeyman -- the straight, white male.)

Bee's militant comedy went like this -- "It's pretty clear who ruined America.  White people.  The Caucasian nation showed up in droves to vote for Trump, so I don't want to hear a God da..... word about black voter turnout.  How many times do we expect black people to build our country for us?"

Bee added, "And for the white Americans who didn't vote for Trump... you're not off the hook either.  If all 3.3 million Muslims in America have to be held accountable for every radical terrorist, then white people better be ready to take responsibility for their peers, too."

Bee had a message for the 53% of white women who chose “a vial of weaponized testosterone” over the first female president. “Way to lean out,” she told them, before concluding with a call to action: “Let’s get off the floor and get busy. Especially you white women. We’ve got some karma to work off.”

My first reaction is --  wasn't Hillary Clinton white?  My second reaction was -- this is what passes for comedy these days?  My third reaction was to turn the channel.

There's a moment in time when you realize some people just aren't worth saving.  Like when I see a  spider running across the floor.  I don't stop and direct it into a plastic cup and take it outside so it can find it's way back into my basement.  No!  I kill the monster and flush it down the toilet.

Here's the real problem with race -- the left doesn't want anything to do with solving it. 

Apparently that applies whether you're black or white.  I'm amazed at how many white liberals talk about white people being the problem.  Don't they realize they are just as white as I am?  Is there a magical elixir that is sprayed over their sleeping bodies at night that seeps into their skin?  Do they wake up in the morning and see something the rest of us don't?

Actually, I think these misguided youth, professors and celebrities have been poisoned into thinking whites have certain unearned advantages just because of the color of their skin.  Out of guilt, they try to correct these injustices by blaming whites for all the social injustices of the day. 

Out of stupidity, they put it on YouTube, MTV and national television for the rest of us to see.

Like global warming, which keeps changing its definition to fit the current weather pattern, race relations are never allowed to heal.  So eight years of Obama haven't improved race relations.  They have made things worse.  Why?  Because Obama and his ilk have no intention of "healing" the injustices of the past.  They want to continue milking that cow until it's as empty as Bill and Hillary's sex life.

The result is false narratives like "Hands Up!  Don't shoot." or "Black Lives Matter" which perpetuate the racial divide and keep blacks and whites from ever sitting down and agreeing on a solution.  What a shame and wasted opportunity to improve race relations!  This will go down as Obama's greatest failure.

Since it is approaching the end of 2016, here are my white male resolutions concerning race --

Be glad you live in the United States.  No one has done more to help more people in the world than the good 'ol' US of A..

God made all people in his image, so no one should be discriminated against.  Including whites.  If your church espouses a course on white privilege, it's time to move on.  (The same applies to colleges and their America-hating communist professors.)

If you have liberal friends, tell them to stop looking at the color of one's skin.  We're all the same on the inside.

Don't waste your time on bitter comedians who forgot to up their dosage of Prozac after the election.  They're not worth your time.  Watch Young Frankenstein, the original Ghostbusters and Planes, Trains and Automobiles if you want a good laugh.  Better yet, anything with Danny Kaye.  It will do wonders.


'Nuff Said! -- from the great Nina Simone, singing three days after the murder of Martin Luther King, Jr. .

Dancing to the Darkness

"I am honestly scared for the future of this country, and am seriously considering moving to a different country..."

"This country is doomed!"

"I am so disgusted, sad and disturbed by the results tonight.  I am afraid and sad for the future of our country... too many stupid people."

"Our country is now in serious and unprecedented trouble... like never before."

"I can't stop crying... you people are idiots."

"America died."

These are posts by people who reacted strongly to election results that did not go the way they had hoped.  The election had been long and vicious, guaranteeing the country would remain divided.  Having invested so much into the campaign and believing the end was near if their candidate didn't win, voters were left despondent and desperate.

If you didn't know better, you would have thought they were posted by people reacting to Trump's victory on November 8th.  But they're not.  They're from Tuesday, November 6, 2012.  The night that Obama was sent back to Washington D.C. for his second term as President of the United States. 

I'm sure I was telling my wife that America was finished back in 2012.  That everything that made America great was under assault when Ohio's 20 electoral votes went to Obama, and I, in frustration, turned off the television and reached for the sleeping pills.  We had hoped that this great country had seen through the "historic" BS of 2008 and realized its mistake -  Omabacare, higher taxes and a struggling economy.  Surely, voters would respond to Romney's message and turn leadership of the country over to a businessman with experience.  But no.

So four long years later, the shoe is on the other foot.  You can say some things never change.  Every year, we are led to believe candidate A is the only reasonable choice.  Candidate B will bring an end to our way of life as we know it.  However, despite predictions, the sun always rises the next day --  and the doom and gloom slowly dissipate like the smell of cooked liver and onions from two days ago.  

Or does it?

The one thought that NEVER occurred to me was to riot in the streets and protest the legitimate results of an election that clearly indicated a winner.  Obama was not my candidate, but the people had spoken and I was forced to accept the fact that for one night in 2012, more people who saw things differently voted for someone else.  And that's all that mattered.

Maybe being in sales prepared me for failure.  Or maybe being a Badger fan while going to college in Madison prepared me for some difficult times (fortunately, Barry Alvarez's arrival was just a short six years away). 

So what's different now?  What's so hard about accepting our nation's first female nominee for president being beaten by some brash New York pussy grabber?  Why claim "Trump is not MY president" when  the election clearly says he is?  What's driving young people into the streets and out of the classroom?

First, my upbringing didn't evolve around social issues like gay marriage, racial injustice and global warming.  Youth today have been led to believe those things are the most important issues in America.  Not freedom from terrorism, not better jobs that pay well, and not protections given to us under the U.S. Constitution.  And it doesn't seem like Chemistry, Math or Economics are very important either.

Young people today have been attending the College of Social Justice since kindergarten.  Some are being taught to question the fairness of race relations, while ignoring law and order.  It's surprising how important climate change is to them, to the degree that they will not listen to reason (no amount of facts will change it).  Captain Planet has completely, and I mean completely, obliterated rational thought on the impact of carbon burning fuels on good ol' Mother Earth.  

Their passion for global warming can only be matched by their defense of gay and transsexual lifestyles.  Being a heterosexual male who is crazy about the opposite sex, I can only imagine why.  Perhaps they have been told we shouldn't be judgmental, or that they want the same things we all do.  That's fine, but being forced to accept a lifestyle that is counter to what my religion teaches is a little hard to handle.  Worse, I'm being told that I'm a bad person if I don't agree.  Nothing could be further from the truth.

Despite the small number of gays actually in our country, you would think heterosexuals were in the minority.  Within a span of a few months, our country chucked thousands of years of tradition and declared the old definition of marriage was dead.  As I said before, if you disagreed, you are attacked and made to walk the "walk of shame."  Ask the bakers in Oregon, or the state legislatures in Indiana and North Carolina how it feels to be on the wrong side of the LGBT coalition.

Social issues like gay marriage led our youth into believing other archaic traditions would fall next.  Eight years of Obama's "change" had many believing the country was going to break that glass ceiling and elect Hillary as the first female president in November.  The social issues tsunami would not be denied!

And then November 8th happened.  Oops...



Trump's election is more than just the defeat of Hillary.

For the first time in at least 8 years, his coming presidency is a real challenge to these social issues that have been gaining ground.  So should we be surprised that their reaction is one of fearful overreaction?  Or rage?  Of course not -- and yet I am.

For many college students, this is their first election and first encounter with the unexpected twists and turns of a presidential election.   Compounding the problem is how students don't have the necessary coping skills to deal with results that fall outside of their self-imposed safe zones.

For most schools and universities,  failure is a dirty a word.  As dirty as those found in MAD Magazine and National Lampoon in the 60's and 70's.  Our teaching institutions -- ironically -- have failed our children in preparing them for real life.

Early on, awarding participation awards to kids in sports and other competitions was thought of as a way to strengthen their self esteem.  Making winners out of losers was supposed to foster success, help them engage in activities, deal with challenges and interact with others.  Self esteem was the genie in a bottle -- providing the building blocks for school success, and a firm foundation for future learning.

I never bought into self esteem; that's not to say that you shouldn't feel good about yourself.  Because we are all much more productive when feeling confident.  The trouble is too many people are doing nothing to warrant that feeling.  Feeling good about yourself -- or feeling like you are on the right side of an argument -- needs to be earned or it's a hollow victory.

I think Vince Lombardi once said, "It's not whether you get knocked down, it's whether you get up again."  Participation ribbons aren't teaching our children anything.  Take it from Vince -- failure is the greatest teacher of success and it's a lesson that needs to be taught again and again, and students need to experience it every time they are wrong.

Ooooh, but that's so harsh!

Today's students don't know how to confront opposing opinions.   Videos I have seen -- students screaming at each other during class meetings and in response to guest speakers who were invited to speak on campus -- are embarrassing.  Our school's adherence to the PC culture has left students shell-shocked whenever they hear someone challenge their collective views of social justice and fairness.

Since they were first exposed by their kindergarten teacher through readings of "Tango Makes Three," and later through required viewings of Al Gore's "An Inconvenient Truth" for science class,  students have been molded into a pajama-wearing, identity-driven, racially-sensitive student body that schools have been able to control.  Political correctness is being used to silence dissent and debate on campus.  No longer institutions of greater learning, they have become an experiment in safe zones, balloons, play-do and puppies.  Instead of graduating students capable of dealing with real world issues, this hyper-sensitivity is teaching students to claim grievous harm in nearly any circumstance and after any affront. 

Examples abound --

Feminism has led women to expect free contraception.  Any challenge to it is an attack on women's health.

Atheism has forced schools to ban God from sporting events, and restricted certain clothing or jewelry from campus.  Religious references are considered unconstitutional and a violation to the separation between church and state.

Racism I can be found on colleges where black students are forced to live with unreasonable expectations -- like going to class, learning how to speak and write, and pass a class.  This leads to attaching "white privilege" to everything from test results and course studies, to -- God help us -- walking past a campus building "that was built on the backs of black people".

According to Ebony McGee, who is an assistant professor of diversity and urban schooling at Vanderbilt, all of these politically incorrect assaults have students feeling "anxiety, stress, depression and thoughts of suicide, as well as a host of physical ailments like hair loss, diabetes and heart disease."

And here I thought it had something to do with passing exams and graduating.



Where do we go from here?

I'd say go back to the basics, but I honestly don't see the culture on campus changing.  Teachers will continue to berate students who voted for Trump, and students will continue to search for equality where none exists.  If anything, teachers have lost control of the students, and there is no putting THAT horse back in the barn.  It's like the bad guys on Walking Dead coming face to face with the zombies that they have kept locked in the basement.  Through some unforeseen development, the bad guys fall victim to the very monsters they helped create.

It's time we give up on our feelings and start looking at what we know.  The nonsense that can be found at Google where you can indicate how you are feeling highlights one of the problems we face.

Our election has uncorked the bottle that held many people in check.  It's not just the college aged kids protesting in the streets, of course.  Paid, professional protesters like those bused in to Fergusson, MO and Madison, WI continue to love the media attention and spotlight.  And the money is good.   Anarchists have existed for decades and they aren't going away either.  Like Mystique from the X-Men movies, the One Percent protests have mutated into Black Lives Matter, who will evolve into something when another protest is needed.

But it's a good bet that they all share something in common.  Somewhere along the line, they learned everything they needed from a sociology class like the one on heterogeneous team-building (whatever that is) found in the Urban Studies 101 section of Race Relations.

It concerns me that these young protesters are excelling at heterogeneous team-building, but failing in math, reading and science.  Our country is on average with -- or below --  the rest of the world in test results from those three subjects.  How do we correct institutions that are graduating classes with students closer to Lebanon and the Dominican Republic than to students from Singapore?  Our universities have become a joke to the rest of the world.

Despite giving out coloring books and bubbles to 20-year-old students in designated safe places, it is reported that forty-four percent of America's college students are suffering from depression.  The social experiment that began with self-esteem is failing our students, and there doesn't seem to be any answer except more coddling and ways to avoid feeling bad.

Kids, it's time to put away the coloring books and pick up one on conflict resolution.

Viva Les Deplorables!

"The future is not an inheritance, it is an opportunity and an obligation."
-- Bill Clinton



November 8, 2016 will be remembered as the day America stepped back from the edge of a precipice.

Over the past eight years, the conservative foundations that shaped my life had been violated, attacked, manipulated and trashed under the guise of fairness and political correctness.  Had the HildaBeast won on Tuesday, I'm confident many of those foundations would have been pounded into dust, leaving little behind except fading photographs in a salute to long forgotten memories.

What happened?  How did Trump -- hated by the left and abandoned by many on the right -- overcome unbelievable odds to bring America back?  How could the media -- who gave Hillary anywhere from 70 to 100% chance of becoming president -- get it so wrong?

As best as I can explain -- it was repudiation from an electorate that had grown tired of a corrupt system of politicians and big businesses seeking to control the lives of ordinary people who simply want America to be great again.  Ordinary people, fighting for a decent life were ignored by both parties in favor of illegal immigrants, alternative lifestyles and an increasingly intrusive government (think Obamacare).

I know that I had grown tired of being called a bigot, racist and sexist.  Tired of feeling like I was doing something wrong every morning before the fog of sleep had left.  I was angered over Obama's apology tour, my perceived white privilege in society, businesses too big to fail, the lies our media told about police brutality and last but not least, the need for safe zones in schools (Look!  Someone wrote "Make America Great Again" in chalk on the sidewalk!)

Decent, law abiding people can only take so much.  And because I am a God-fearing, law-abiding person I waited until the election to do something about it.  No marching in the street at night, burning businesses and looting stuff that didn't belong to me.  Apparently, at 58 years old, I need my beauty sleep. 

I did what America has always done since the first votes were cast in 1789 for George Washington as for president:  fill out a ballot and live with the results.

There have been forty-four men elected to the highest office in America and up to now, there has been a peaceful transition from one to the next.  Despite the nightly protests claiming "Not our President" it is my hope that one of our country's most unique characteristics continues for the forty-fifth. 

The liberal media has given many reasons for Trump's win on Tuesday.  America refuses to have a woman president (and yet 40% of the people voting for Trump were women); Bernie Sanders' supporters failed to show up; old fashioned racism which wanted a return to traditional white rule (and yet more blacks and Latinos voted for Trump than during our last election); the fake FACEBOOK stories that tilted things Trump's way; and my favorite, the great divide between "educated" voters and those described as "working class" voters.  The elite media not only failed to see this coming, they still haven't display a rudimentary understanding of the worldviews of those who voted for Trump  (there isn't a better example than that of the monolithic, insulated political culture in our colleges and universities).

Perhaps the best reason is the simplest -- that Donald Trump remembered the forgotten men and women of this country.   Our politicians were so enamored with fringe groups that they forgot about normal Americans, like me.

Instead they had nightly orgasms covering the following groups:

Activists, especially groups like Black Live Matter. Their violent tendencies were mostly acted out on other black people, but the forgotten men and women of America saw them on TV and were not amused.  It turns out that people of any color -- black, white or yellow -- prefer to live in relative safety.  Maybe it would have been different if they had victimized only whites, but they were abided and abetted by politicians who gave them "room to vent." 

Or illegal aliens who have broken the law and entered this country.  The forgotten men and women of America watched them take their jobs and collect welfare benefits for their anchor baby's support.  They watched as non-citizens behaved badly, burning our flag and demanding free education and healthcare.  The people of the United States are a tolerant group, even when the phone asks you "to press 1 for English."  But there are limits and if our politicians skirt the law and welcome more to enter this country, they shouldn't be surprised when the forgotten stand up and say "enough!"

Or terrorists that have entered Europe and America under the guise of refugees.  The forgotten men and women of America watched as radical Muslim refugees in France and Belgium killed, raped and terrorized innocent people in the name of Allah.  They stood silent as Hillary and President Obama tried to calm their fears, then announced that they wanted to increase the number of refugees by over 500%.  Politicians promised to vet the refugees carefully and to keep America safe, then built walls around their homes and traveled with armed bodyguards for protection.

I've seen and read enough Facebook posts to last a life time. No doubt family and friendships have taken a hit despite my best efforts to remain civil.  I rarely responded, even when they angered me.   As far as I can tell, I haven't been de-friended by anyone yet, but I suspect it will make for some quiet conversations during the holidays!  I don't now how I turned out so different than my brother and sister, but somewhere along the line they fell under the voodoo spell of Comedy Central, MSNBC and CNN.

I play basketball with a sociology teacher that tried to explain the polarity of people's thinking by saying we are all heavily influenced by groups of like-minded people, who reinforce our thinking and isolate us from opposing opinions.  But these groups attract people with similar thought and opinions which were there to begin with.  So many of these people come to the group already sharing the same group think.

What have I learned from this election?  That you don't want Bruce Springsteen and Beyonce with you on the campaign trail...

Seriously, Liz and I made the decision that we would not check on the election until the following morning.  We'd been through enough heartbreak that we didn't want to sleep on another one.   So, as I lay in bed the morning after the election -- without knowing the results -- I was thinking of smart responses that I could give to co-workers who were sure to be gloating over a Hillary win.  I decided on something simple:  "Well, at least Trump has pulled back the curtain on Washington politics."

The Democrat party, in particular, was unveiled as a corrupt party that couldn't play by the rules. Despite Bernie Sander's popularity during the primaries, he had no chance of being named the nominee. And the discovery of Donna Brazille providing questions to Hillary before the debates confirmed the long-suspected love-fest between the media and Democratic candidates.

Further proof that most Democrats running for office are truth-challenged.  They can't tell people what they really hope to accomplish because people would refuse to vote for it.  And as Wikileaks revealed over and over, they depend on the media to help shape their message. 

For years, I've known the media is nothing more than a mouthpiece for the Democratic Party, but this year it became abundantly clear that almost all major network news and press organizations like the AP were totally in the bag for Hillary.  The press was so confident that Hilary would win that they gave up trying to be balanced.  The mainstream media ignored the Wikileaks barrage and Hillary's email controversy and instead defended her or simply didn't report some of the facts. 

When I was going to journalism school in Madison during the 80's, there was still a desire to challenge government officials and find the truth (of course it helped that Reagan was president and everything he did was fair game).  Today, if you are in the press, you are more likely to be handed an open invitation to a Hillary fundraiser than to be handed a top secret file describing her speeches to Wall Street big wigs in the shadows of some underground parking garage.  

The Democrats biggest Super Pac was NBC, ABC and CBS.

But it wasn't just the Democrats who were exposed by Trump.  When Jeb Bush, Marco Rubio and John Kasich failed to stop the Trump train, a powerful group of Washington elites came forward to say that they would never vote for Trump. "Never Trumpers" -- people like George Will, Bill Kristol, John McCain, Mitt Romney, the most of the Bush family -- claimed that Trump presented such a unique threat to America and to the Republican party's legacy that it was ok for Hillary to win the election  (and along with it, the reshaping of America to illegal immigration, and a Supreme Court leaning to the left).

It never occurred to me that so many people claiming to share my conservative views could be part of the same Washington ruling class that was tearing down this country.   They were SO good at what they said that we kept voting them into power.  They said:  "Give us the House of Representatives and we will control the purse strings to shut down Omabacare!"  Then it was "Give us the Senate and we can filibuster and stop Obama's radical agenda".  Finally it was "Give us the White House and we will change the world." 

Until the last man standing was Trump.  Then everything changed.  And then it was Never Trump!  I should have listened to a good friend of mine from Grand Rapids (who has since passed away) who didn't trust Bush and what he was trying to do.  Every year the evidence was in front of me, but I never believed it.  In retrospect, I am no longer surprised by what has happened to my country over the past 30 years.

The straw that broke the camel's back came when FBI director James Comey found Hillary to be "careless" with her email accounts and private servers.  Instead of being given an orange jumpsuit in a small cell in some high security prison, she was rewarded with the Democratic nomination for president.  I'd heard that Comey couldn't bring himself to take down the Democratic candidate just weeks before an election.  Or that there was no intent.  The release by Wikileaks of her "lost" emails proved that was not the case.  Her intent was to hide what she was doing.

The idea that anybody could look at what this woman did (selling special access while Secretary of State and later as the presumptive nominee for President) is abhorrent.  No amount of shared commitment to abortion, or women's rights should excuse the corruption that surrounded this woman and the Clinton Foundation.  To those of you who voted for Hillary despite this evil cloud of corruption, I can only wonder what is worse:  not knowing, or not caring?

Ten years from now, we will know if Donald Trump was a game changer or a mistake.  History will tell us what he accomplished as the 45th President of the United States (just not the history being taught to our children)...  So going forward, I don't know what's going to happen. 

I know what I want for America, and I hope this country gives him a chance to lead and make America great again... 

Long live the forgotten Americans!

In Love With Vienna

"Edelweiss, Edelweiss,
Du grüsst mich jeden Morgen.
Seh ich dich, freue ich mich,
Und vergess meine Sorgen
Schmücke die Heimat nach Schnee und Eis,
Blüh'n soll'n deine Sterne.
Edelweiss, Edelweiss
Ach, ich hab dich so gerne."

(You know the song from The Sound of Music)

As the lyrics roll off the man's tongue, his partner strums a rare double-necked guitar.  It's an unusual looking guitar -- combining a bass and 6-string guitar -- but it comes off as the perfect musical compliment to the singer's accordion.

Liz and I are enjoying our last evening by going to a "heuriger" or wine tavern, in the western suburb of Heiligenstadt.

It's a rainy evening, which is both exciting and disappointing.  

The drizzle has meant that we are sitting inside tonight, in one of the tavern's cozy, wood paneled dining rooms.   The disappointment comes from not enjoying the sheltered outdoor garden area with its wood benches and chairs surrounded by oleander bushes and trellised grape vines hanging overhead.

We are being entertained by two men singing traditional Old Vienna  music.  They have been moving from table to table -- singing Austrian songs that often bring laughter and contributions from those brave enough to be heard.

After some applause from us, they work their way over to our table.  Neither of them speaks any English.  Not that it really matters -- we have done our best to show our appreciation, clapping when they are done, and smiling during the songs.  When they are done playing, Liz shows the accordion player her wedding ring and explains that we are in Vienna to celebrate 30 years of marriage.

"Ah!  Anniversary,"  says the old man.  He pauses, as if to find the right word, then adds, pointing at his wedding ring.  "Fifty."

Liz attempts to bridge the language divide with her amazing command of the German language.  "Wow!  Fifty years!  Where is your Frau tonight?"

He shifts the accordion resting against his belly and smiles.  "Home.  Always home."



I don't know why, but when I think of Vienna I don't usually think of wine.  And yet riding the tram to one of the city's outer districts, it is quite common to pass a vineyard, flanked on either side by villas and houses.  In fact Vienna may be the only capital in all of Europe to have an entire wine-growing region located within its city limits. It is easy to forget that you are in a city of nearly two million people as you drive past row after row of grape vines.  To wine drinkers, the wines of Vienna are as famous as the giant ferris wheel of Riesenradplatz, the Schoenbrunn Palace, the Vienna Boys Choir and the Lipizzaner horses.

Wine growing in Vienna goes back a long way.  History has grapes being cultivated here since the Romans pitched their camps in the first century AD.  White wines are grown in 80 percent of the vineyards, with the Wiener Gemischter Satz being the most traditional.  For this wine, vines from 15 different grape varieties are grown, harvested and processed together.  This gives the taste its unique aroma and flavor and balanced composition.

Equally famous is the heuriger, a small wine tavern that populates so many streets in western Vienna. It's not being overly dramatic to say that the heuriger has not only kept wine growing alive in Vienna, but saved it from vanishing altogether.  The word heuriger  means "of this year" and refers to the wine made in that year.  More than a village pub, a heuriger represents a blending of city and farm, where small-time winemakers can sell their wines without the bottling and shipping overhead of larger wine makers.  By law, they must offer wines from their own vineyard and buffet tables piled high with home-made delicacies.  

The Werner Welser heuriger that we find ourselves in tonight is found in an old winegrower's farmhouse. It comes complete with a secluded garden and romantic parlor where they play songs of Old Vienna.  As is tradition, a bush hangs upside down above the entrance door and the words "Ausg'steckt" is written on a board which shows that the tavern is open.

On the menu is fried vegetables, cheese, gratin soufflés, escalope of veal, pork and chicken, roast beef, tongue and an assortment of Vienna sausages.  There is white bread dumplings and cabbage with bacon.  For dessert, there is homemade strudel.

We are told that they don't bring food to the table -- we need to go to another room where the food is displayed behind a long glass case, and tell our hostess what items (and how much) we want placed on our plate.  With each plateful, we pay her before returning to our table.  A couple of glasses of Rheinriesling, delivered to our table by our waitress (kellnerin) completes our meal.

 For those who say Viennese people can be grumpy, I say -- "give them wine!"

It's approaching 8:30 pm and Mark, LuAnn, Liz and I are seated at an outdoor café near the museum district of Vienna.  It's a beautiful area, full of old historic buildings and lively taverns where people go to forget about the stresses of another long day.  It is also where music lovers go to enjoy quiet cafes off the beaten path -- often down old, worn cobblestone alleyways.

I look at a bowl sitting in front of me and wonder if I am missing something. 

The white saucer holds three hard pieces of pumpkin, cut into round balls and topped by a single black bean.  There are also rolls of slivered pumpkin filled with more beans and a simple green leaf of mint.  

I look up, thinking I am going to tell the waiter that I had ordered pumpkin soup, but before I can, he leans forward with a small pitcher and slowly pours a hot, creamy pumpkin broth over it all.

The four of us listen as our waiter tells me what is in the soup.  As is common, he is in his early to mid-twenties, looking to earn a little money by waiting on tables.  When he finishes, he asks "Is my English good?"  

LuAnn and Mark , sitting across the table, both say, "Oh yes -- what's your name and where are you from?"

"You can call me Emeric," he says. "Or Niklas, or Mike -- whichever is easiest for you."  I pause before putting a spoonful to my mouth, and laugh at the thought that someone would just use a name to make it easier to remember.

"I am from Hollensberg... to the north of Vienna in lower Austria."  Our waiter, perhaps enjoying the attention of four American visitors, smiles and puts down the pitcher.  He has time on his hands since it's a quiet evening and few people are waiting for service. Because the evening is cool, the propane patio heaters scattered around the tables are lit.  For us -- used to cool fall evenings -- it is perfect weather to sit outside wearing nothing but a sweater, drink a little wine and enjoy a good meal.  

Mike continues, "But I like Vienna.  I have been here for over a year now.  It's an exciting place, full of culture, beautiful music and theater."

Liz mentions that we had just come from a concert of Mozart and Strauss music performed by the Vienna Residence Orchestra.  It featured some of the composers'  best songs and was performed by a small ensemble orchestra with opera singers and ballet dancers.

"Es Theater führte das Palais Auersperg."  He pauses then continues in his best English, " Ah, yes.  I have heard of it," -- I think that is where good music is performed.  Vienna is known as the City of Music where the most beautiful music in world is found. "

Liz checks her ticket stub and confirms "Yes, it says the Auersperg Palace.  It's a beautiful place and the musicians were very good.  It's something we wanted to do while in Vienna."

"Anything else?"

"Well, we want to take a carriage ride around the old parts of Vienna and go to some museums.  We saw Stephan's Cathedral earlier this afternoon and did some shopping near Stephansplatz.  There is so much to do here, that it's hard to know what to do."

Our waiter nods and makes a common refrain that we have heard before:  "There is much to love in Vienna.  That's why people come here."




It is true that people come to Vienna for love.  Love of music.  Love of culture.  Love of art.

It is a city overflowing with riches, which include once being the center of the powerful Habsburg monarchy.  Outrageously opulent palaces such as Schloss Belvedere and Schloss Schoenbrunn and the monumental Hofburg complex reveal the extent of the wealth and power of Vienna's past.

We chose Wednesday (forecast was for rain) to venture indoors to see how the ruling class lived.  What better place to begin than the Hofburg complex containing the Imperial Apartments, the Silver Collection and the Imperial Treasury. 

It is an exhibition of opulence -- with its in-your-face frescoed, gilded, chandelier glory.  It's the stuff that would leave even Downton Abbey fans in awe.

During our visit, we go through the Kaiserappartements, where the focus is on the beloved Empress Elizabeth of Austria.  She was an interesting person, who despite her royal upbringing was ill-prepared for the formal Habsburg court life.  Her marriage to Emperor Franz Joseph made her situation worse - she would often travel alone to Hungary to escape the trappings of her royal family and its prescribed expectations. 

Another oddity was her obsession with maintaining her youthful figure and beauty.  While this might not sound like anything too unusual for someone in her position, the extent of her obsession is.

. She required that she be sewn into her leather corsets.

. She applied ground slugs as a cream to her face every night.

. She insisted on a full body wrap made from hay to fortify her immune system.

. Her ankle-length hair required three hours to dress, braid and pin.

. She had a 19-inch waist that required an extremely rigorous exercise to maintain.  She achieved this by installing a gymnastics room and could often be seen dangling from gymnastic rings.

. At night, she was vigorously massaged, and  would sleep in cloths soaked in cider vinegar.

. She would weigh herself three times a day.

Our tour of the Kaiserappartements revealed many of her dresses, famous portraits, her Bavarian harp, a miniature secretaire with painted envelopes, a 63-piece first aid kit and a reconstruction of her luxurious imperial saloon car.  And finally a black coat with egret feathers, which covered her body after her assassination on Lake Geneva by Luigi Lucheni, a 25-year old anarchist, as she went out of Hotel Rivage where she was staying.

Another stop on our tour was The Imperial Silver Collection -- an exhibit that showcased the Imperial Household's wealth and culture of dining -- there were linens, plates, silver and tableware that were used by royalty for everyday meals, as well as important state affairs.  Among the 7,000 items in the collection are cooking pans from the Court Kitchen, baking tins from the Court Confectionery, and centerpieces of gilt bronze used by Napoleon I and Queen Victoria.

Our final stop was at The Imperial Treasury, which originally had me thinking it was a bank.  Instead, the Treasury consists of 21 rooms and contains a collection of rare treasures that were acquired by the Habsburg monarchy over the course of centuries. It contains the insignia and jewels of the Holy Roman Empire, the Austrian Crown Jewels, the treasury of the Order of the Golden Fleece, and one of the world's largest emeralds.

Also on display were two "inalienable heirlooms" of the House of Austria:  a giant narwhal tooth thought to be the horn of a unicorn and the Agate Bowl which many believed to be the legendary Holy Grail.

Despite the excessive wealth of many of her rulers, Vienna is very much a city that can be enjoyed by the everyday man -- not to mention four lucky travelers from the Midwest.  

As the final stop on our three-city trip, I remember Vienna for the simple things we did --   the romantic atmosphere of the Werner Welser heuriger, the wonderful vegetables, cheeses and meats found at the Naschmarkt,  and our carriage ride through the Ringstrasse, Museum Quarter and  Old City. 

I was surprised by the "familiarity" of the people and food in Vienna.  After our brief stay in Prague, where the language and currency was so strange, it was a relief to "come home" to the German/Austrian lebensweise.

As with our trip to Paris the previous summer, traveling through Germany, the Czech Republic and Austria opened my eyes to a way of life that is so different than my own.  I realize that we are experiencing the best parts of each city we visit, and that everyday life doesn't include carriage rides and trips to famous museums.  And we weren't beat down with the daily rituals of life -- the loneliness of a subway ride, the demands of a customer who wants the impossible, or the struggle to provide for a growing family.

Which simply proves one thing.  No matter where you live, there are beautiful things to see and people to enjoy.  The simple fact that you see it everyday shouldn't mean you ignore it.  And for that reminder, I will forever be grateful for our trip to Europe.

Auf Wiedersehen for now!

A Mother's Care

I walk through the door into a house I have known all my life. 

The feel of the door knob and the closing sound of the porch door are as familiar to me as my own reflection in a mirror.  I step up into a small dark kitchen with the lingering odors from the night's meal still hanging in the air.  From the living room I see my older sister get out of a recliner, grab her coat and head toward me. 

She says, "She's had a rough day so I won't be gone too long."

I sit down at the kitchen table to remove my shoes.  "That's alright, take your time and get everything you need."

As she passes, Linda briefly touches my shoulder, then grabs a set of keys and leaves the house.  For a moment, I sit there listening to the ticking of the clock coming from the wall behind me.  Despite the low visibility, I know that there are pictures of my nieces and nephews stuck to the refrigerator door and family phone numbers tacked to the cork board next to the phone.  A plastic glow-in-the-dark cross sits on a shelf above the sink with the following passage imprinted on its base:

"So do not fear, for I am with you;  do not be dismayed, for I am your God."

I slowly rise from my chair and step out of the darkness into the living room, where I took my first steps as a  baby nearly fifty-seven years ago.   The frail body of the woman who encouraged me to take those first steps -- however small -- now lies quietly on a couch against the room's far wall. 

In a soft voice, I say, "Hi, mom.  It's Tim."


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I was ten years old when my appendix nearly burst.  It remains the only time I have ever been to the hospital, despite an athletic life that has included more than a few close calls.

My memories of that event include lying on my back in a cold, sterile emergency room while the doctor probed my stomach with his finger, searching for an answer to the sharp pain in my lower right side. 

It was during my time in the hospital -- specifically July 20, 1969 (after the surgery to remove my appendix)-- that I watched, as a proud American, Neil Armstrong take "one giant leap for mankind" from my hospital bed. 

I also remember my mother sitting with me the night before, holding my hand and wondering what was happening to her little boy.  I don't know how many times during the night I would pound on the side of my bed letting her know that I was in pain.  Moments later she would enter my bedroom, her sleepy but concerned face silhouetted against the glow of a night light behind her.  When my pain continued into the early morning, it became obvious that something was happening beyond mom and dad's control, and that a trip to the hospital was needed.

Two nights later, following surgery, I was laying in my hospital bed trying to sleep and I would see her once again sitting in a nearby chair, keeping a watchful eye on me.  Despite the unfamiliar surroundings of my hospital room -- with its clinical beeps and clicks, and unfamiliar voices coming from the hallway -- I never felt worried as long as she was close to me.

Today, nearly 47 years later, the tables have turned.  As she approaches her 87th birthday, she is the one in need of someone's watchful eye.  It's a situation some friends have faced recently as their parents get old.  In fact I am one of a few with a parent still living.

My mom was born in La Crosse on March 12, 1929 to Selma and Eric Frick, whose parents had immigrated to America from Germany.  She has led what some would call an "uneventful" life -- never having gone to college, spending her honeymoon fishing in northern Wisconsin and living her life in the same house.

She was the youngest of four children, including two brothers and a sister, who grew up during the Great Depression.  Her mother died when she was only 16, and she spent much of her time helping her father take care of the house, fixing meals and keeping a watchful eye on her sometimes troublesome siblings.  Much of her spare time was spent with her sister -- either swimming in the Mississippi River or ice skating at Pettibone Lagoon .

At age 21, she met Floyd Carlson, from West Salem at a company dance held at La Crosse Glass Company.  Having returned from the war, he was working as an accountant when they met and decided to get married.  Within a span of eight years, she had given birth to four children -- two boys and two girls.  When they were old enough to take care of themselves, she worked as a cook for the La Crosse school district.  It was a job she held until she retired many years later.

As a deeply religious woman, my mom made us go to parochial school (a Lutheran grade school -- grades K through 8th), and always seemed bothered when my older brother would skip church because he had been out too late on a Saturday night.  She never pushed her religion on any of us, but always made it known that she disapproved of behavior that was not viewed as "Christian" in her eyes.  She has belonged to the same church for all of my life, and will be remembered some day as someone who contributed in many ways to its mission on not only Sundays, but the other six days as well.

I eventually left home for college and got married myself.  Years have a way of passing by very quickly when you are busy with life, and on the outer fringes of my memory are periodic stops when her brothers and sister died.  And my dad.  Then relatives and friends.  And through it all, she continued along the way in relatively good health for someone firmly entrenched in her seventh and eight decades.

Six months ago, she was walking and talking just as she always had.  Then in what seems like the blink of an eye, she started losing her balance -- and more concerning -- her train of thought, unable to even finish a sentence.  I noticed it one afternoon when asking her questions about her childhood in La Crosse.  Then when I was asking her about Christmas memories, she told a story that included me sitting in the car with her brothers on Christmas Eve -- even though I wouldn't be born for another fifteen years.

The doctor told us later that she had fluid putting pressure on her brain, causing the speech difficulty and loss of balance.  It was possible she had had a stroke, but nothing was definitive.  The thin frail-looking girl, who had met the challenge of helping her widowed father raise a family -- and later raise four children of her own -- was faced with a new challenge.  One she could not meet on her own.


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I wheel the chair into the small bedroom, pausing before her bed.  Grabbing her hand, I pull her into a standing position, then rotate her body so she can sit on the edge. 

"Let me get this wheelchair out of the way Mom, then I'll tuck you in," It never occurred to me that someday I would have to get my mother ready for bed, but here I was lifting her legs and sliding her frail body under the covers.  I fluffed the pillow before putting her head down and pulling up the covers to her chest.

"Can you find the chap stick ... on that table next to you?" she asks as she twists and turns, trying to find a comfortable position.

"Yeah, it's right here."  I swab a little on my right index finger and gently trace her pale pink lips.  As I finish, I notice she is looking at me, a smile on her face that is hard to read.  Is she thinking of something funny or trying to understand why I am touching her face?

"I never wanted..." she pauses as her eyebrows scrunch together before her voice trails off.

"You never wanted what?"  I am struggling to understand how a thought can be there one second and gone the next.  Or does it remain, but she is unable to get it out?

She closes her eyes, then fights to get an arm out from under her covers.  With a little help, she reaches for my hand and then relaxes again.  "... wanted you kids to do this."  It's an effort that leaves her exhausted, but her eyes continue to search my face, as though I am a ghost floating above her bed.

I put my other hand on hers and say, "What do you mean?  Don't you remember all the times you sat with me when I wasn't feeling well?  Or everything else you did for us kids?"  I pause, shifting my weight more firmly on the bed.  "It's time for you to let us help you, mom.  You know we don't mind."

For a moment I think she is about to respond, but then she smiles and her face relaxes again.  "How 'bout we say a prayer and then I turn out the lights?  Or do you keep one on at night?"

"Yes," she says.  Not knowing if her response applied to the prayer or the light, I begin with a prayer I have said every night of my life.

"Now the light has gone away; 
Savior, listen while I pray.
Asking Thee to watch and keep
And to send me quiet sleep.

Jesus Savior wash away
All that has been wrong today.
Help me every day to be
Good and gentle more like thee."

I pause, before closing my eyes and adding silently to myself --

"Now I lay me down to sleep
I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
If I should die before I wake,
I pray the Lord my soul to take."

I stand and step away before sliding the wheelchair up against her bed.  Linda had mentioned that sometimes during the night she will find Mom sitting up , trying to get out of bed.  With one side of the bed pushed against the wall and the other blocked by her wheelchair, I think she will be ok.

"Good night, mom,"  I say and walk out into the hallway.  I turn on the hall light and with one last look into her semi-dark bedroom, I head into the next room.


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One of the lessons we learn as children is to cling to our parents when we are scared.  Whether seeing Santa Clause in the mall or going to school on your first day, mom or dad are always there to reassure you that everything is going to be all right.

As I think about her deteriorating condition, I struggle with the thought that she is no longer able to be the mother of my childhood memories.  No more motherly advice, no more chocolate eggnog or egg sandwiches for lunch.  No guarantees that she will even remember my birthday, much less the little things that are happening everyday around her. 

With things taking a turn for the worse, my brother and sisters and I are facing the reality that she cannot take care of herself anymore.  My older sister, Linda -- who has been living with mom since before Dad died more than 10 years ago -- is able to handle the majority of it, but not without the aid of a homecare service during the day when she is working at the greenhouse.  Eventually that will change.

Mom has said on occasions that she is ready to die. To see dad again. But am I ready for her to leave?  And is it really for me to even have a say in what she wants?

Mom has always been there during different stages of my life  -- as a young child crawling under the kitchen table and seeing her preparing supper; as a teenager seeing her in the crowd after our basketball team had won an overtime game against Lincoln Middle School; as an adult walking over to her with a red rose on our wedding day. 

Her contributions have been recorded in an imaginary picture book with events, sounds, and colors that have contributed to who I am.  It is a book that remains open for now, waiting for me to add more pages.

Soon I will join my wife and friends who have already closed their books on their parents' lives.  Whether this year or next, I will be facing the world for the first time on my own without the watchful eye of a parent.

Leaving me with only memories that will visit in the middle of the night.